Have you ever thought it was never ever possible to be a good kisser or you saw kissing as a daunting task especially if you haven’t you haven’t had the experience?
Well listen up, you don’t have to practice in a mirror or go in hiding kissing your palms….clears throat. I did try all that but can’t say it worked. My first kiss was a huge mess. (Story for another day). So here are some tips on how to be a good kisser, below are some tips. I got this tips from the girl mentioned in Usher’s song, Good Kisser. Just kidding.
- GOOD ORAL HYGIENE
When you’re about to start kissing a guy, you want to make sure that your breath smells awesome. I bet you don’t want your partner ending up in an ambulance van.
It no news that you need to brush twice a day. Just in case brushing is not enough, then pop a mint before you get down to making out, it’ll make all of the difference in the world.
- MOIST LIPS
Whether you are a first-time kisser you want to ensure every moment is a pleasurable one, so ensure your lips are completely moisturized. To achieve this try slicking on some chapstick too.
- CLOSED EYES
I have heard people say “must you have your eyes closed while kissing”? The answer is No, but is just a way for you to let your lips take over.
Try kissing with your eyes closed and experience the fairytale moment!
Do you know a bad position could just mar the beginning of a remarkable kiss moment?
When I was a first-time kisser, this was a big challenge for me as my head either hurt from bad posture or an aching back simply because there was no closure between myself and my partner.
Ensure you support with your hands when kissing. With your hands either in your partner’s hair, on his neck or even around his waist.
Make sure that you use your hands to pull him in closer and also to keep him close thus creating a bond between you and your partner.
It is not a too good feeling when you always make the first move to have a romantic or special moment with your partner.
It’s okay if you don’t want to initiate the first kiss, but if you’re in a relationship with someone, you can’t always wait for them to initiate.
Pausing between kisses can feel natural.
So don’t kiss them for so long that you lose your breath and have to push them away to catch it again.
Make sure you pause between every few kisses to avoid an embarrassing moment.
- don’t lead, be led
If you want to make sure you’re giving your partner everything they need, let them take the lead.
If they slip their tongue into your mouth, then you can do the same.
If they keep giving you closed mouth kisses, then keep it at that.
- BE CREATIVE
You don’t want to be repetitive. If you are repetitive and predictive it makes kissing a kill joy. So, alternate from kissing their bottom lip to kissing their top lip.
Switch from holding their face with your hand to caressing their thigh.
You could either up the beat from a close-mouthed kiss to a deep tongue kiss. When you’re kissing close-mouthed, you can still use your tongue and also your teeth, but be gentle!
Just don’t let things get stale.
- THE PLACE
It is very important to be in the right place for a memorable kiss moment.
It’ll be more romantic if you go to a secluded location that makes you both feel comfortable. You will have your attention on your partner and not worry about your surroundings.
- CONNECT WITH YOUR PARTNER
The only way you can connect with your partner is by paying attention to their body language and how they react. Everyone has different likes and dislikes, so you should pay close attention. Ask yourself what does my partner like? Wet kissing, tongue, rough kissing etc.
There are no rules stating kissing is limited to just the mouth.
You can always move down to the neck, shoulder blades and other body parts then back up to the lips.
Do whatever your partner is comfortable with.
- ENSURE TO RELAX
You don’t want your partner to freak out with you sharing and sweating doing a kiss. Relax and stop worrying about every little move you make.
All of these tips and tricks should help if you are new at kissing, but what are some of the other ways on how to be a good kisser?